The Quiet Exhaustion of Always Having to Fight

For many in the LGBTQ+ community, simply existing is an act of resistance. In a world that still questions their rights, their identities, and their safety, achieving rest can be difficult. While others may move through life without the weight of constant advocacy, LGBTQ+ individuals are often forced into the role of activist, advocate, and educator—whether they choose it or not. This constant demand to stand up, speak out, and defend their humanity is not just tiring—it’s a form of invisible labor that too often goes unacknowledged. In response, this post offers a curated list of resources designed to provide moments of rest, support, and relief. Because making the space to breathe and rest is a necessary act, and it helps to fuel the ongoing acts of advocacy.

REST—THE ART OF QUIET REBELLION

In a world that glorifies hustle culture, Tricia Hersey’s We Will Rest is a permission slip to unhurry. It’s a gift of respite for those seeking an escape from the unrelenting grind. If you’re ready to embrace rest as a form of resistance, this collection of meditations, poetry, and storytelling is your guide to liberation.

WEAR YOUR SUPPORT

Stand in proud solidarity with the Trans community by wearing this t-shirt, highlighting the omission of TQ+ from Stonewall’s commemorative signage.

STAY HEALTHY

Given the significant challenges faced by the LGBTQ+ community, we want to shine a light on ally organizations dedicated to offering lifegiving support. Folx is a trusted healthcare provider that creates a safe, affirming space for essential wellness and medical resources.

This blog post content was originally included in our community newsletter: The Moment – where we respond quickly and thoughtfully to impactful events and decisions that challenge or disrupt our profession.